It wasn't long ago when I found this rough pine cone and as I was holding it in my hand, I thought " this is me..hurting anyone who gets close to me..who holds me tight.." It wasn't a pleasant realization, but it was true to some extent, maybe a little harsh, but true. And that made everything worse, simply by accepting it, I kept pushing people away from me..
But it's over now. I know I made some mistakes, I know I wasn't patient enough, but nobody has the right to tell me "it's not love", if that's not love, then I don't believe in love, then I don't think it exists at all! Except I do..and just because I did some stupid stuff, doesn't make my feelings any less valuable.
The next thing that crushed me, was when I lost my hope, when I realized that it's over, it's not gonna happen as I've always wanted and was sure of. For some time, I was lost, I didn't know what to do with my life anymore..and it made me angry, it made me hate myself because I felt weak. weak because I needed someone to make me happy, to make my life perfect and I was devastated when I lost my chance.
I have changed now, because I've been here before (not exactly here, but close enough) and I got out of it, I survived and I was enough for me, even if it was only for 3 months, I know that it can happen again and I will make it happen.
It doesn't make my love any less significant, but I think you'll grow when you can love without needing to be loved back.
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